This is a simple question but took years to answer.
Admittedly, I am a man with the instant desire to mate with the high-quality females to raise offsprings. I am always for nice-looking ladies with large boobs and thin waistlines. Who doesn’t?
Life is not going to just give me what I wanted. I think it has the plan to make me suffer to teach me a real lesson, that I have to compromise and focus on the most important features of her.
So what is it, the most important feature?
Smart, I will give her that.
Being smart is being able to understand what others are saying. She shall have a fundamental curiosity towards the world around her and willing to explore the territories that are not generally considered “girly” because there aren’t simply that much girly stuff in the world.
Yes, she may like shopping and baking. But I also would like to see her like reading, traveling, working out.
She needs to be a happy person by herself. This is not something I could change her. Karen is absolutely the opposite of that. I knew it but I just refuse to admit it to myself.
Once I let go of the nice looking part, there are so many options opening up for me now.